This idea of shared humanity and the connections that we make with one another - that's what, in fact, makes life worth living.
Clint Smith
I live in a southern city where “How are you?” is a common courtesy thrown around loosely by strangers as they pass one another. Over time this simple but profound question has lost its weight – or so our cultural use of it would suggest.
But the power of words lies first, in the intention of the speaker. This question is no different. When spoken with intent, “How are you?” offers us the opportunity to acknowledge the peace or balance present in our chaotic lives. When asked sincerely, it becomes an invitation to vulnerability, challenging the societal pressure to hide our struggles.
Above all else, “How are you?” is a question that demands honesty. When it is present, a space for genuine human connection is created amidst the indifference in this world. Thus, it behooves us to treat this question with reverence when we are the asker and as a gift when we are blessed to be its recipient.
May we all be blessed to be its recipient.
-Jamal
Reads
Here are three pieces I truly enjoyed reading this week.
2024 Is the New 1984 by James Aaron Snow
“There are no membership dues, qualifications, stipulations, dress codes, minimal education level, or connections required. On this sacred ground all are welcome.”
Writing towards a book deal by
“How do I give God both my sacrifice and my ambition? My writing and my dreams? This Substack and my desire for a book deal? Is it possible?”
The Heart's Game of Tug-of-War by
“The pressure of consistency and my mixed feelings about the desire for success pull one side of me, and my humanity and limited capacity pull the other.”
This post pushed me to subscribe Jamal! Loved it!!! To shake up some of my friends when I greet them, I’m trying out “WHY are you?” THAT tends to lead toward some great conversation! But, your blackout poetry may illustrate the same answer...”human connection.” AMEN.
Thank you for touching on this. This is a much-needed note and encouragement for those of us who have been craving intentionality, to speak like we mean it.